Shackles

What you really need is empathy!

No, I am not talking about victimizing yourself and demand other's sympathy
you are already expert in that
What I am saying is looking beyond self and understand who's coming from where......

Your colored glasses are now turned into lenses, Lenses embedded into the retina
so inseparable that you even forgot that they exist
Believing that your perspective as the only truth and an established system to confirm the same.

What you really need is to stop believing those lenses and start listening more what others are saying
Not hearing what you want to hear

That my dear friend, would tell you; that
everyone is stuck in the same trap, of victimizing oneself and seek sympathy

But then you may understand , understand what others really want...

No, they don't need your sympathy, don't give it to them
they are already addicted to it
But give them empathy, as now you know their problem.

Break the shackles of Single Truth,
As you will understand everyone has one
don't reconfirm but understand their version
And help them break their shackles too.